Do I expect too much?

The CFO’s brother and his fiance flew in for a weekend visit, arriving late Thursday evening.  I went to the gym and work as usual on Friday while the CFO entertained them.  The CFO was also in charge of meeting the installer for our much anticipated living room and kitchen window treatments at 3:00pm on Friday.  It took over 2 years of off and on shopping to find a material that the CFO liked and then another 6 weeks to have the shades made.  At around 3:30pm, I received a text message from her saying “they look awful.”  “Oh great,” I thought.   We just spent a chunk of money on these roman shades and she doesn’t like how the material looks.  I hoped that she was just over reacting a little, so I didn't dwell on it..

When I arrived home after work, I immediately saw why she didn’t like them.  It wasn’t the color/pattern of the material or how they were put together, it was the fact that sunlight blasts right through the back liner and the material, totally whiting it out, except for a 1.5” band around the edge where the material was doubled over for a hem.  She was right, they looked like crap.  I immediately got on the phone with our representative at Lowes and, of course, since it was after 5pm on the east coast, she would have to wait until Monday for a resolution.  As the weekend went on, our unhappiness with the shades got worse.  At 6:30 am in the morning, when the sun is on the OTHER side of the house (these windows face west), they are still washed out by the indirect sunlight.  The only time you can see the true look of the fabric is when it is pitch black outside.

 

I took this photo in the early morning, when the sun was rising on the OTHER side of the house.

 

This one should give you an idea of how dark the fabric actually is, look at the valance at the top or the side where it is folded over.

 

It will be interesting to see how this works out, since these were custom ordered.  However, we were never told that the material would wash out in sunlight, even with a liner behind it.  Why would they even sell a fabric for shades that can’t block sunlight?   Hell, if this was the look that we were after, we could have spent $10/each for some cheap roller shades that would give us the same look.  Some of you are probably laughing because this kind of crap always seems to happen to me…  It made me start to wonder, do I expect too much?

On Saturday night we all went to see Darius Rucker perform outside at the Corn Crib, our minor, minor, minor league baseball stadium.  Just like last year's show at this venue, it rained all day, stopping just in time for the show.  Considering the fact that it rained all day, we really lucked out and had a nice cool and dry evening to watch the show, it was almost perfect.  Our seats were one row back from the baseball dugout and the front of the stage was sitting behind second base.  A group of 6 women and 2 men in their 40’s-late 50’s came and sat in front of us.  As my luck would have it, the two women in front of us were chatty Cathy’s and they talked all through the two opening acts.  I bit my tongue through those two acts and the CFO, seeing my frustration, kept giving me the “just ignore them” look.

I don't know why I keep posting blurry, Iphone photos of concerts, but here is another...

 

After they talked through the first two Darius songs, I had finally had it.  When I say “talked,” I should really say “shouted” because that is what they were doing.   When the music got louder, they just talked louder.  It is entirely possible that they didn’t realize how loud they were being, but I could hear every word that they were saying and it was driving me nuts.  Having observed the fact that the two guys in their group were both bigger than I am (wearing wranglers and boots, of course…), coupled with the fact that they were knocking back miller lites one after the other, I knew that I had to be somewhat tactful with my approach.

Halfway through the third song, I finally couldn’t take it any more so I leaned forward towards the two ladies and said, “I don’t know if you came here to have a conversation or to listen to a concert, but I came here for the concert, not to hear the two of you talk.”  I wasn’t sure how my comment would be received, so I just sat back in my seat and refocused my attention towards the stage.

One of the ladies looked shocked and pissed, like I had just kicked a 50 yard field goal with her toy poodle… How dare I say such a thing to her?  The other seemed somewhat more understanding and looked back and offered a half-hearted “Sorry.”  The good news is that they were much quieter through the rest of the concert and they didn’t mention it to the rest of their group.

I know the CFO wasn’t happy that I spoke up, but talking during a concert is like talking at the movie theater… you just shouldn’t do it.  We have had talkers around us at the last couple shows that we have gone to, I don’t know if is a function of me buying cheap seat tickets or if people in general are just getting more rude and inconsiderate.  I have a feeling that it is the latter, which is really sad.  What is this world coming to?  When you go to a concert (or a movie, show, etc.),  I don’t care if you sing along or occasionally comment on “how hot the performer is,” but otherwise, please shut the @#$% up and enjoy the show.  You can talk about it after it is over.  Yet again I ask: do I expect too much?

We headed up to Chicago late Sunday morning and went to Gino’s East, a Chicago style pizza place.  This was our second attempt at Chicago Style pizza, having not really enjoyed the first place that we tried.  The waitress took our order and informed us that it took about an hour to make the deep dish Chicago style… I thought to myself, “if it takes that long, it better be good.”  When the pizza arrived, the waitress explained that Chicago style means the sauce is on top… yes, the layers are the deep dish crust, then the cheese, the toppings and then the sauce.  You pretty much have to eat it with a knife and fork.  Gino’s tasted much better than the last one we tried, but I still wasn’t wowed by it.  I prefer a more doughy crust and this crust was more crumbly.  Perhaps I really do expect too much.

 

We then walked to Navy pier to go on an architectural river boat cruise.  Finally, something that met my expectations!  The guide was enthusiastic, very knowledgeable about architectural terminology and the history of the local buildings.  We saw some great views of the buildings, some of which you just don’t get walking on the crowded downtown sidewalks.  After doing this tour, I would definitely like to go back and take a more detailed walking tour of some of the buildings with the architectural society, the town is full of interesting architectural history.  And then, 45 minutes into our 1 hour tour, it happened.  Our inexpensive, small digital camera (I didn’t take the SLR because I was worried that it might rain) flashed “battery low” and promptly shut off. Seriously?!  The batteries can't make it through one hour of snapping photos?  

Yes, it is official, I do expect too much.